Okay, I really hope the reason that you are reading this is because you want to get the love of your life back into your life.
I hope you are not looking for an article on how to get revenge or "get back" at an ex.
If you are, then sorry you need to check out another article.
Now that is squared away, lets get back to the task at hand.
Getting back your ex on Valentines Day is going to be something that needs to be handled with care.
There are steps you will have to take in order to make sure that it does not make things worse.
Now if you think that you have had enough time to heal and enough time apart that it has done you both good, this may be the time to get moving forward with getting your ex back.
One of the things you will need to do is not push the issue of getting back together.
I know that sounds like the complete opposite of what you want to hear, but pushing it too much may actually make things worse than they already are.
You need to make things comfortable and with as little pressure possible.
Show your ex that you still care without putting them in a compromising position.
What does that mean? That means not telling them right away that you want to get married or anything else that may have them running for the hills.
There are other subtle ways that you can say and show that you still care.
A simple card or other small gift will do.
Getting anything expensive puts them in an awkward spot.
Getting something smaller scale takes the pressure off and lets them know that you still care.
You may want to get things going right away, but they may still need more time.
However, showing a gesture of love like this on Valentines Day could pay off down the road.
It is such a huge holiday that some people almost expect things on this day.
If you would like to, you can also ask if your ex has plans, and if not you can ask if they would like to do something.
Usually something in a group or in public will let them know that you are not pushing any romantic notions on them right away.
This only serves to get you in their good graces again.
I truly hope that this Holiday that you can make things work for the both of you.
Good luck!
I hope you are not looking for an article on how to get revenge or "get back" at an ex.
If you are, then sorry you need to check out another article.
Now that is squared away, lets get back to the task at hand.
Getting back your ex on Valentines Day is going to be something that needs to be handled with care.
There are steps you will have to take in order to make sure that it does not make things worse.
Now if you think that you have had enough time to heal and enough time apart that it has done you both good, this may be the time to get moving forward with getting your ex back.
One of the things you will need to do is not push the issue of getting back together.
I know that sounds like the complete opposite of what you want to hear, but pushing it too much may actually make things worse than they already are.
You need to make things comfortable and with as little pressure possible.
Show your ex that you still care without putting them in a compromising position.
What does that mean? That means not telling them right away that you want to get married or anything else that may have them running for the hills.
There are other subtle ways that you can say and show that you still care.
A simple card or other small gift will do.
Getting anything expensive puts them in an awkward spot.
Getting something smaller scale takes the pressure off and lets them know that you still care.
You may want to get things going right away, but they may still need more time.
However, showing a gesture of love like this on Valentines Day could pay off down the road.
It is such a huge holiday that some people almost expect things on this day.
If you would like to, you can also ask if your ex has plans, and if not you can ask if they would like to do something.
Usually something in a group or in public will let them know that you are not pushing any romantic notions on them right away.
This only serves to get you in their good graces again.
I truly hope that this Holiday that you can make things work for the both of you.
Good luck!