If you are reading this article then it means that you want to get your ex back. The good news for you, is that today couples break up and get together quite often. The better news is that this article will tell you all you need to know to make you ex come back to your on their own.

There are only a limited number of things you want to do to get your ex back. Some are more difficult than others, but in the end, if you truly want to get your ex back, you will need to do them as described below.

First thing you need to do is to pull yourself together and stop being and emotional wreck. This is hard, but the main priority is to look good in the eyes of your ex, and that is a whole lot easier to do. You simply need to stop any contact. That's it. It will show that you have maturity and dignity. So, say bye-bye to all the late night calls, all the messages and email starting now till further notice.

The good thing in no contacting them is the fact that you will make them wonder what happened to you, and hence they will think more of you, think of the good and bad times, and they will start to miss you.

Next thing to do is to work on yourself, especially since now, with the breakup, you have a lot more time on your hands. What you should do is gain some self confidence. You can easily do that by making you feel good. And the way you can make you feel good implies a new haircut, new clothes, going to the gym, buying makeup, going out with friends, catching on with your reading, etc.

Make sure that the changes are also noticeable to others, so they will tell your ex of your improvement. This will make them curious, and they will think more of you and they will want to see you. Once you accomplish this it means that you are still on their mind, and getting back together is just around the corner.