Long-distance relationships are, without a doubt, challenging. If you don't have the necessary survival skills to stay afloat and commitment to make the relationship last a lifetime, you're destined to become one of the statistics of terminating something wonderful due to geography. You meet someone online who happens to live halfway around the globe, and your friendship blossoms into a romantic affair. Your girlfriend has recently moved across the country in pursuit of an educational goal. Your military husband is stationed oversees for a special assignment. If you can relate or is experiencing something similar, don't throw it all away just because of the temporary distance. This short-term arrangement can be very frustrating and will end up falling by the wayside if you allow it to happen. Alternatively, love will surely grow regardless of distance with the right attitude and mindset.
Here are some helpful tips on how to survive and thrive in a long-distance relationship:
Regular Communication
It's imperative to keep each other informed of what's going on in both your worlds as often as possible. Otherwise, feelings of insecurity and paranoia may arise. Maintaining trust is one of the building blocks of a relationship, which can be nurtured through constant flow of communication. Don't let the different time zones discourage you from making contact with your partner on a regular basis. Through the aid of technology, communication has never been easier. The best way, of course, is through the phone lines. However, if long-distance charges become problematic, you can send each other instant messages and can still receive updates in real time. Plus, it's free. Email, text messaging, and other modes of communication are also available if you find yourself preoccupied.
Romantic Gestures
If you desire to sustain a strong bond with your significant other and keep the passion alive, do something romantic. While the thought of candlelight dinners or romantic rendezvous are not quite possible until your next meeting, sending flowers or a gift will do the trick in the interim. If you want to get creative, send him/her a love letter or poem. What about virtual gifts? Try sending your partner an e-card, a virtual hug, or an e-kiss. Any of these romantic gestures will help keep the fire burning.
Plan Your Reunions
Regular visits should be planned accordingly. Without frequent reunions, the thought of giving up will definitely cross your minds. Even if you only see each other once a month, every quarter, or whenever your budget dictates, make it happen to add excitement and enhance intimacy. Mix it up a little. This time around, instead of traveling to his/her neck of the woods, or vice versa, meet each other halfway. So, whenever you're feeling the blues, keep in mind that you will be together soon which should help counter the effects of loneliness.
It's Only Temporary
You need to condition your mind that this is only a temporary setup. There will come a time when the moment of truth will arrive. Yes, a blissful reunion awaits you. At that point, your worlds will become one and the issue of being apart will remain a thing of the past. In the meantime, make small sacrifices by embracing the entire concept of a long-distance relationship. "Togetherness" will emerge from the scene and your troubles will soon come to pass.
Long-distance affairs definitely require a lot of work, patience, and commitment from both partners. Regular communication and keeping each other informed of daily activities will help build trust and provide a sense of security. Expressing your love for one another can also be established through gift-giving and other forms of romantic gestures. It's important to make every moment spent together and apart equally precious and enjoyable. Live in the moment and focus on your future goals together.
Here are some helpful tips on how to survive and thrive in a long-distance relationship:
Regular Communication
It's imperative to keep each other informed of what's going on in both your worlds as often as possible. Otherwise, feelings of insecurity and paranoia may arise. Maintaining trust is one of the building blocks of a relationship, which can be nurtured through constant flow of communication. Don't let the different time zones discourage you from making contact with your partner on a regular basis. Through the aid of technology, communication has never been easier. The best way, of course, is through the phone lines. However, if long-distance charges become problematic, you can send each other instant messages and can still receive updates in real time. Plus, it's free. Email, text messaging, and other modes of communication are also available if you find yourself preoccupied.
Romantic Gestures
If you desire to sustain a strong bond with your significant other and keep the passion alive, do something romantic. While the thought of candlelight dinners or romantic rendezvous are not quite possible until your next meeting, sending flowers or a gift will do the trick in the interim. If you want to get creative, send him/her a love letter or poem. What about virtual gifts? Try sending your partner an e-card, a virtual hug, or an e-kiss. Any of these romantic gestures will help keep the fire burning.
Plan Your Reunions
Regular visits should be planned accordingly. Without frequent reunions, the thought of giving up will definitely cross your minds. Even if you only see each other once a month, every quarter, or whenever your budget dictates, make it happen to add excitement and enhance intimacy. Mix it up a little. This time around, instead of traveling to his/her neck of the woods, or vice versa, meet each other halfway. So, whenever you're feeling the blues, keep in mind that you will be together soon which should help counter the effects of loneliness.
It's Only Temporary
You need to condition your mind that this is only a temporary setup. There will come a time when the moment of truth will arrive. Yes, a blissful reunion awaits you. At that point, your worlds will become one and the issue of being apart will remain a thing of the past. In the meantime, make small sacrifices by embracing the entire concept of a long-distance relationship. "Togetherness" will emerge from the scene and your troubles will soon come to pass.
Long-distance affairs definitely require a lot of work, patience, and commitment from both partners. Regular communication and keeping each other informed of daily activities will help build trust and provide a sense of security. Expressing your love for one another can also be established through gift-giving and other forms of romantic gestures. It's important to make every moment spent together and apart equally precious and enjoyable. Live in the moment and focus on your future goals together.