Having someone break up with us surely affects our psychological make up in certain ways. We may not feel as confident, we might feel self pity and some people even commit suicide. Now I wouldn't wish that on anyone so I came up with four tips that could not only help you deal with the pain, it will affect your ex psychologically that they will be compelled to re connect with you.

1. Get a new look - If you have been paying attention at all when you were still together then you know what I mean. He/she must have wanted you to wear a certain type of shirt or made a comment about how someone looks great, be it in a movie or some common friend or relative maybe.

Make sure you don't ask any of your common friends for help (I'll get to this in a moment). When you are sure you have the right look, and then by all means go for it. This will no doubt make him/ her notice you.

2. Always speak of your ex in a good light - Talking about your ex in a negative way after he/she broke up with you is a common mistake people make. This will further vindicate his/her decision and he/she will hate you even more. If you do the opposite while giving out the impression that you are okay about it (even if you are not) will eat at them and could make them feel a little guilty. Never ask for help from you common friends as it will make you look pathetic.

3. Make yourself scarce - I'm not suggesting you move out of town or disappear. Absence sometimes makes you more valuable but total absence will make your ex forget about you. Find that middle ground to keep them thinking about you.

4. Date around - and don't stop there. Your ex must have told you things that he/she didn't like about you ( like you are insensitive or something), keep those in mind and make sure you prove him/her wrong by treating you dates the way he/she wanted you to treat him/her before. This will really drive him/her crazy.

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