Is your ex checking you out a little more closely? Are you getting some more calls from your ex? Was that a flirting glance you saw from your ex? Is all of this making you think that, maybe your ex wants you back? Your next question should be, "what to do if my ex wants me back?" Answer: "Hit the Brakes!".
Sure, the signs may be there, and you may be very hopeful about the possibility of getting back with your ex, but I would caution you not to jump too quickly.
Hit the brakes.
If there is a chance that the two of you could reunite, it would be to your advantage to take control of the situation.
You'll want to control the timing and the intensity of things so as not to hurt your chances.
It will be a lot like a chess game, where incremental, strategic moves ultimately lead you to your objective.
You need to realize, that, up to this point, it has been your elusiveness that has sparked the interest of your ex.
So, it's advisable to keep it up, but moderate it according to your strategy.
The important things to do now is to determine what is really motivating your ex to want to get back with you.
After what you have been through, you need to flesh out the underlying reason your ex is suddenly back in the picture.
Is it just loneliness? You need to be sure that you're not going to just fill some temporary void.
Is it out of some sort of spite - playing the game to show the world that your ex can still have you.
Blech! That's creepy.
You need time to figure out if there is something stronger that is driving your ex back to you.
Is it possible for your ex to still love you after the time that has past? Hey, you're thinking about the same thing so, you must still have strong feelings for your ex, right? Regardless, it's very important that you move cautiously and deliberately.
Stay in control.
As the signs turn to real evidence that your ex is serious as well, you can begin to open up a little at a time.
If your ex really wants you back, time is on your side.