When it's male foreboding, it's called second-guessing but when it's female foreboding, it's called intuition.
That's what sets women apart from men, for women are highly sensitive creatures and are capable of smelling infidelity, an imminent separation, and a rat in a divorce case.
But then intuition doesn't sit very well with women who are upset, let's say she's fussing about the relationship.
The anger blind sights her from the gift to discern and instead she lets fury fuel her battle in the divorce court.
There's a danger in this because it will make a woman an impulsive decision-maker and may start with the biggest mistake of being blown away by the first lawyer she approaches.
Precaution must be taken when dealing with lawyers in an initial conference, if not avoided.
For though they may appear to have your best interests at heart, they also have in mind the fact that you are presently vulnerable and gullible to an extent of being easily hoodwinked.
Instead, invest from the wisdom that the lawyer may offer then move on to the next.
This is where collect and select is a good idea, granting you have enough time to "window-shop" for the best legal counsels.
There are some tips in divorce that will work for both men and women and that includes the warning to leave the marital home.
Unless the court has sent an order for you to do so, stay and don't stray.
It is concrete enough evidence and it could be used against you.
The court is inclined to award the marital home and even child custody to the one who stays in the house and with the family.
Women who feel the pressure staying in one place with her partner often strays and doesn't realize she is inviting the risk to lose her priceless possessions.
Speaking of possessions, there is one that must be considered for isolation and that is your finances.
Be wary of joint accounts and close it even before the settlement is reached.
While your finances are still shared, so are your debts.
One big heartache than headache is deciding on child custody.
It even becomes more difficult if both parents equally love the child.
It is easier to win custody if the husband doesn't give a care about the child or children but then there are husbands who are really fathers.
If this is the case, mediation should be considered for the sake of the child.
As a mother, it is easier for us to recognize the child's or the children's need for the father that's why we must initiate a settlement that will favor the child.
There is one more thing that a woman should bear in her heart, not in her mind and that is not to misuse the rights as a woman for personal gain.
Yes, the court favors women and children in a majority of divorce cases but is it just and morally correct to walk away with everything? Some women are practical nowadays; marry and divorce rich men then getting away with lying, ripping the ex-husband off down to the last cent.
On an ethical note, how would you feel if the tables were turned?
That's what sets women apart from men, for women are highly sensitive creatures and are capable of smelling infidelity, an imminent separation, and a rat in a divorce case.
But then intuition doesn't sit very well with women who are upset, let's say she's fussing about the relationship.
The anger blind sights her from the gift to discern and instead she lets fury fuel her battle in the divorce court.
There's a danger in this because it will make a woman an impulsive decision-maker and may start with the biggest mistake of being blown away by the first lawyer she approaches.
Precaution must be taken when dealing with lawyers in an initial conference, if not avoided.
For though they may appear to have your best interests at heart, they also have in mind the fact that you are presently vulnerable and gullible to an extent of being easily hoodwinked.
Instead, invest from the wisdom that the lawyer may offer then move on to the next.
This is where collect and select is a good idea, granting you have enough time to "window-shop" for the best legal counsels.
There are some tips in divorce that will work for both men and women and that includes the warning to leave the marital home.
Unless the court has sent an order for you to do so, stay and don't stray.
It is concrete enough evidence and it could be used against you.
The court is inclined to award the marital home and even child custody to the one who stays in the house and with the family.
Women who feel the pressure staying in one place with her partner often strays and doesn't realize she is inviting the risk to lose her priceless possessions.
Speaking of possessions, there is one that must be considered for isolation and that is your finances.
Be wary of joint accounts and close it even before the settlement is reached.
While your finances are still shared, so are your debts.
One big heartache than headache is deciding on child custody.
It even becomes more difficult if both parents equally love the child.
It is easier to win custody if the husband doesn't give a care about the child or children but then there are husbands who are really fathers.
If this is the case, mediation should be considered for the sake of the child.
As a mother, it is easier for us to recognize the child's or the children's need for the father that's why we must initiate a settlement that will favor the child.
There is one more thing that a woman should bear in her heart, not in her mind and that is not to misuse the rights as a woman for personal gain.
Yes, the court favors women and children in a majority of divorce cases but is it just and morally correct to walk away with everything? Some women are practical nowadays; marry and divorce rich men then getting away with lying, ripping the ex-husband off down to the last cent.
On an ethical note, how would you feel if the tables were turned?