If you've been with your man for what seems like an age and you haven't yet got his hand in marriage, avoid getting too heavy about the subject.
Brow-beating your man about a matter as significant as marriage can be disconcerting for some men.
Try therefore, to keep things light and remain positive.
Bring up the subject of getting married casually every so often whilst you're in conversation, then move straight on to talking about something else.
This approach works best if you've previously talked about the subject openly.
With this matter-of-fact approach, the subject of marriage becomes less and less unfamiliar to you as a couple and you may find yourself engaged and married in less time than you anticipated.
Another approach is to try to find out what's on his mind and to tease out any reservations he might have about getting married.
Talk about successful marriages that are working well in case he's worried that your marriage may eventually collapse.
Using this sort of 'third party' approach will help you over time discover whether he really wants to marry you.
Once these deep-seated inhibitions have been revealed they can be discussed and resolved.
No matter what happens, make strides to see things through his eyes and offer support.
Most of all just be your authentic self.
You want him to marry you for you not for a representation of you that you've devised, so always be yourself and show him that your self esteem is high.
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