Seduction is a gradual process with a number of steps, but it begins with knowing how to approach women.
Here are some ideas to help you with the most challenging step - approaching a woman you don't know.
The main reason men hesitate to approach a woman is because they're afraid of rejection.
This is quite understandable.
Getting rejected is no fun.
It hurts.
When you walk up to a woman, you're declaring interest.
You're giving her the opportunity to respond positively or not.
If she shuts you down, it's a blow to your self-esteem and sense of worth.
Your best defense is a positive attitude about yourself and a realistic evaluation of the situation.
High self esteem is your best ally.
If you don't feel good about yourself, don't you think she'll sense that? yet important thing about self-esteem is that a man who is very confident and self-assured won't be bothered by one woman's opinion or even a group of women's opinion.
His sense of worth doesn't depend on others.
It comes from knowing himself and his value.
Even though you might expect the opposite, not caring if you are rejected makes it less likely that you will be.
The difficult part is having self confidence when you first start out.
Once you've had some success, the self confidence comes more easily.
As in a lot of areas in life, it can make sense to "fake it 'till you make it".
Imagine how a truly confident man would feel.
Try to capture that feeling yourself.
This is not deception.
It's you becoming who you want to be.
This tip can help tremendously:practice approaching and talking to women that you actually aren't all that interested in developing any relationship with.
Since you're just practicing and aren't that interested in her and don't want anything from her, her response doesn't really affect you.
This means you can me more relaxed in the interaction and have an honest "So what?" attitude if she does happen to reject you.
In this situation, if she rejects you, so what? It was actually generous of you to gift her with your attention.
Having this attitude takes the pressure off and makes it much easier for you to be spontaneous and playful while getting a chance to see how women respond to different things.
Your eventual aim is to keep that same attitude when you approach a woman you are interested in.
You're doing her a favor.
You're a man of worth and women should be vying for your attention.
It may not be easy at first, but developing this "so what, her loss" outlook is well worth the effort.
It will serve you well when you start approaching women you are interested in.
In all of this you need to distinguish between strong self esteem and arrogance.
A confident man doesn't need to brag and he doesn't need praise from someone else.
His confidence comes from an internal knowledge of himself.
Also, don't use or mislead any these women that you aren't really interested in.
It's very likely that a number of women will respond positively to you.
If you don't honestly reciprocate their interest, don't lead them on.
After a while, tell them you enjoyed meeting them and move on.